I think all of us, at the end of the day, want peace and fulfillment more than anything.
Of course, there are other things we want. The truth is, we need to accomplish some of these other things if we are to achieve deep and lasting peace.
Of course, fulfillment itself comes mostly, if not exclusively, from meeting our other needs, such as the need to grow, contribute, motivate, and matter.
All of these things mean that we need to master our mindset – our usual beliefs, thoughts and expectations. We must engage in self-development. Only if we develop ourselves personally will our life develop materially.
Here are five tips for creating more peace, motivation, and mindset mastery.
1. Accept only self-compassion and positive self-talk.
This is difficult. Most of us engage in self-flagellation in one way or another. This comes from our set of beliefs. Our mentality.
Make an active and habitual practice of seeking and praising your skills, virtues, earnings.
You usually confess, praise, and congratulate yourself, as you would a child you love.
Serious. Make a conscious, active and habitual practice of this. You will be amazed how this practice alone will drastically change your usual mindset, feelings and emotions. Increase your state of presence, motivation, joy and accomplishment.
At the end of each day, make a list of three to five things you did well. Also add one thing you will do better next time. Always keep the ratio skewed at least 3 to 1 towards the positive.
2. Don’t compare yourself to others.
We all have our own path, brain, mind and personality. The other’s journey has absolutely no effect on our worth, ability, or journey, other than the empowering lessons we can learn from his or her life.
Learn from others, but don’t compare yourself to others.
Use the lessons of others for self-development and success. But don’t compare yourself to another.
Believe in yourself. Be aware of and grateful for your strengths, while being determined to constantly grow and improve.
3. Accept, until you celebrate, that life is sure to have disappointments and sorrows. They fuel self-improvement.
We all want to grow. To understand things. And it’s important. We all want to create and experience personal success.
Success equals change. Positive change. Growth.
If we don’t grow and develop, our lives cannot grow and develop.
When do we grow the most? Heck, for most of us, most of the time, when do we grow up?
When we face obstacles, disappointments and pain. When we face setbacks, they fuel the motivation and determination to change and make things better. And only when we change for the better do our results change for the better.
Hackera la tua mente per goderti ostacoli, delusioni e sì, anche dolore. Sappiate che non è permanente. Né è un’indicazione di alcuna carenza da parte tua. Guarda e senti le belle opportunità di beneficiare e accelerare lo sviluppo personale. Ci avvicina ad essere la persona e il successo verso cui siamo diretti.
4. Non c’è errore, ma nel mancato avvio o nella mancata continuazione.
Credo con entusiasmo che questo sia vero. Qualunque siano i nostri risultati, semplicemente non riusciamo a non provare o arrenderci.
Rimani fedele al tuo obiettivo finale, alla tua missione e alla tua visione e adatta le tue strategie e tattiche secondo la saggezza.
Un cambio di direzione non è necessariamente un fallimento o un negativo. Non rinunciare al tuo sogno, ma rimani fedele alla tua anima. Se sei veramente destinato a un percorso diverso da quello attuale su cui ti sei posizionato, accettalo e passa con entusiasmo al nuovo percorso.
Sii generoso, amorevole, gentile e compassionevole con te stesso. Possedete standard elevati e li obbligate, ma con amorevole simpatia e ottimismo ne trarrete beneficio e prevarrete in ogni circostanza. Concediti l’amore, la pazienza e la misericordia con cui il saggio anziano di Ethar tratta la bella anima del bambino.
5. Ama te stesso. Credi di essere perfetto. Ma diventerai più perfetto ogni giorno e il viaggio non finirà mai.
Maintain that self-image. Constantly love yourself, support him, praise him and have a sense of humor as you would the child or friend you love the most or as you would love and support a loving, more experienced and wiser person who loves you.
But also keep the thirst for personal development and success burning inside. We are all working in the process. Perfect as we are today, but DRIgo to a higher level of perfection today and tomorrow.
Here you are. Five habitual practices that will help bring you whatever you are looking for: love, peace, prosperity, growth, motivation, and perhaps whatever else your soul desires.
Greetings friends.